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Parenting, Fear and R...

Expert Author Deborah Chelette-Wilson

The years of research on the brain have taught us that human beings are the most incredible, vulnerable, high maintenance creatures on the planet. It takes years to grow a child into a competent, capable, loving, contributing adult; or not. We know that the human brain has not completed its growth for executive functioning until the 25th year of life. We...

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Spanking's Effects on...

Expert Author Deborah Chelette-Wilson

Spanking and lying

Using spanking as a punishment leads to the repetition, escalation, or alteration of problematic behaviors. The child becomes accustomed to spankings, but is afraid and confused about what the adult is trying to teach about their behavior.

Why do children lie? To avoid punishment. They do this even when they have gotten in trouble ...

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Negative Feedback Loops

Expert Author Deborah Chelette-Wilson

I worked for a state agency in the late 80's and early 90's. I hadn't been there very long when I had 35 court-ordered cases dumped in my lap. I guess that is baptism. I was sitting at my desk in a large room set up with about 7 other desks for other workers in my unit. Not all of them were there but it didn't matter. She bent over me and in a voice ever...

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The Someday Isle of W...

Expert Author Deborah Chelette-Wilson

I thought that if I was:

1. Patient with others

2. Kind, understanding and compassionate

3. Sacrificed so my children can have a better life than I did

4. Put my husband's needs ahead of my own; even have sex when I really need sleep

5. Make sure that I participate at church, school, social and community organizati...

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