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Spanking's Effects on...

Expert Author Deborah Chelette-Wilson

Spanking and lying

Using spanking as a punishment leads to the repetition, escalation, or alteration of problematic behaviors. The child becomes accustomed to spankings, but is afraid and confused about what the adult is trying to teach about their behavior.

Why do children lie? To avoid punishment. They do this even when they have gotten in trouble ...

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Why Won't They Listen?

Expert Author Deborah Chelette-Wilson

As a Licensed Professional Counselor working with children who have behavioral and emotional issues as well as their caregivers, since the early '90s I have noticed a disturbing trend. Children's problem behaviors seem to be getting more complicated. They are not responding to what worked in the past. I keep hearing, "I've tried everything and nothing seems to work." "I spank them, ground...

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Happy Holidays?

Expert Author Deborah Chelette-Wilson

I don't know how it keeps happening? But another year and December has arrived before I am ready. Used to, the day after Thanksgiving, found me decorating all the halls, the front yard, and most of the rooms in the house for Christmas. It was fun. I enjoyed it. I was ready for the decorating, sending out Christmas Cards, catching up with friends and fami...

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Where Were the Women ...

Expert Author Deborah Chelette-Wilson

I took a new turn on my pathway of spiritual growth and development when I became aware of the National Women's History Project and their goal to write women back into history. It was a surprise turn, one that I didn't see coming. It is one that will be taking me to new places internally and externally. Discovering the National Women's History Project ca...

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