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Project de-clutter and re-arrange that I thought would take me only a couple of hours devolved into a weekend project.   


This isn't the first time I've done this so you would think I would realize my time frames are usually too short.  I'm working on acceptance of this reality so I will be mindful of it in the future so as not to frustrate myself so much.


My experiences with projects have been, first comes the chaos and mess, and later the Ahhh moment after the struggle.  My friend, Lacy called and for a few moments, I whined with her. She says it is the same for her.  After contemplating, we decided that we need to accept the fate of the de-cluttering chaos and go with the flow of it. 


Have a de-cluttering the chaos party.  Maybe then we won't feel so overwhelmed.


Anyone have a de-cluttering story they'd like to share?



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